What to Expect in your First Session with Me
The very first time you become the center of My focus is undoubtedly exciting, but many often express nervousness & anxiety. Perhaps this is also your very first time interacting with a Domme or your first time exploring your submissive desires & kinks. From what I have been told, the way I tend to go about online servitude is fairly different from what many expect or have experienced before. My sessions are usually very focused on interaction & building intimacy. I define interaction as active vocal, mental, & physical participation from you. While I cannot give you a guidebook on what a first session with another Domme might look like (every Domme has their own style & expectations), I can give you an idea of what a first session with Me often does.
While I understand this method of communication can be uncomfortable for some people as it begs for trust and openness, getting to know one another on a somewhat personal level is important to Me. I will expect you not to interrupt Me & to do your best to also keep the conversation moving. The latter means not just giving a two word answer to a question, but elaborating as much as you can. Of course, I don’t mind if you are shy or usually have a difficult time keeping up conversation as long as you express that to Me & do your best. you are always free to ask Me anything you desire, but that does not mean you’ll like the answer.
The direction of the conversation will also be guided into kink. Often, I will ask you questions, not only about what your kinky interests are, but also how they came about, what is it that draws you to them, & what your past experiences have been. Perhaps you’ve never given it much thought aside from when you find yourself aroused, but there is so much to be gained from these talks. Especially for Me. The more open & honest you are, the better I get to understand how these things play into your life. Ultimately, I gain even more insight into how to get into your mind & you get to express yourself freely & without judgement. This will draw us closer together, which is what we both really want, isn’t it? If building a D/s relationship is not a goal of yours, then I do expect you to say so before our session begins. This will change the way I will interact with you as I find intimacy building to be the most stimulating aspect in all of My D/s interactions.
Once I feel I have a basic understanding of who you are & where our interests align, we might move on to more explicit conversation & play. We may also just continue talking & deepening our connection, so do not expect it unless I have agreed to it beforehand. This all depends on My mood, level of interest, & various other things, so there is no way “make it happen.” If we do move into a more sexual mode then I will expect the same level of participation & interaction from you. Anything that we do together will be something in which we both have interest & consent to. Throughout any sort of sexual play, I will likely check in with you, asking how you are feeling or what you are thinking. This is important as it again gives Me insight into you. All I require is that you be honest & try your best to be responsive & communicate. In the instance that you are not enjoying something or if you would like to switch modes, then I want you to speak up & say so so we can adjust. If I decide to allow you an orgasm, I will tell you when & how it is to happen. I do so love making you clean it up with your mouth, but sadly, not every male shares that love.
Whether or not you are given that permission, I do expect our sessions to end with grace & respect. I further expect to be thanked for My time & have a short check in before communication stops. If you really enjoyed yourself then a tip is the best way to show Me – not to mention it does keep Me excited. Should our communication transpire through Reddit or Niteflirt, I do expect you to write an honest review of our session. If we both decide to continue exploring together, then I may have further instructions for you on next steps to take. These follow up steps work to bring us both to a better understanding of how we fit together & how to keep improving our sessions & relationship.
There are things which you can do to make our time together even more mutually beneficial. The way you approach Me will certainly set the tone in how I feel about you. In taking these steps which put My desires ahead of your own, you can help to make a good first impression & make Me enjoy you.