Am I the Domme For you?

For the last several days, weeks, or maybe even months, you have been going back & forth in your mind: do I take those first steps, or do I stay where I am? The decision feels very difficult, perhaps even paralyzing. It could be that you have never interacted with a Domme before & that unknown makes you very anxious. Or it might be that you have spoken with several women claiming to be “Dommes,” but the experiences you’ve had were all the same; you can only take getting yelled at for no reason for so long. The potential reasons are endless. But there is a simple answer to your question.

How can you know if I, or any woman for that matter, am the right one for you? Well, you just have to give it a try. Just like dating in the vanilla world is the only way to find a good match, interacting with a Domme is the only way to discover a connection in D/s. It can be nerve wracking, leaving your safe little perch that has allowed you observe from afar. But, while observing can be enjoyable, all you are really doing is guessing at what it would be like to be in My presence & under My care. Imagine how much more pleasure you can gain from experiencing it than fantasizing about it, alone.

 Take the step toward Me & I’ll hold your hand. If you are feeling especially nervous, starting with a text/chatting session is a good option instead of talking. Many people feel more comfortable typing rather than speaking & I will always do My best to make you feel at ease. Our first conversation will always be focused on getting to know one another & seeing what interests we share, so there is no need to worry about your performance. We’ll get there when it feels right.

While I have found deep connection with many in My care, not every person I talk with is a match; & that’s okay. Yes, it might be disappointing if things don’t work out as you imagined, but now you know. There is no more wondering “maybe…” Having an answer is better than clinging to a question. However, there may be something very special to be found between us. If you think that it might be possible, then it is worth a little stumble or two to find out. The deep relationships I share with those under My wing are incredibly precious. Perhaps even you could find shelter there.

Take a chance & approach Me. Find an answer to the question you’ve been playing over & over in your mind. All it takes is a little of your cash, a little of your time, & a little of your mind. Open yourself up to the opportunity that you’ve been longing for. I am here & I promise to be gentle…at least, at first. Be brave. The only thing keeping you from getting your answer is you.