Who Am I?

Seductive Goddess of Deep Conversation, Physical Delights, & Mental Fuckery

What excites Me? Far too many things to simply place neatly in a finite list. I am a Woman who finds flavors of pleasure in a multitude of ways. There are many sides to Me, but a few I’m willing to share here. Draw near & have a taste.

Power, control, & connection. These are what I crave in all My Domination/submission (D/s) relationships. As a Female Dominant, wielding My power over another provides a rush unlike any other. One of the most beautiful gifts I can receive is a complete surrender of self, allowing Me to mold someone into what I desire. A gift as precious as this can only be truly given through the cultivation & development of real intimacy, and deep connection reaches far beyond the bounds of a scene or fantasy. While playtime can be quite serious, it is not uncommon for laughter to find its way into sessions with Me.

Begin your own adventure with Me by filling out the appropriate request form.

She/They/Mistress/Goddess

Although you would never guess it, I am in My 40’s and quite happy to be so. In my 15+ years of D/s I have found My natural quiet confidence & rarely feel the need to raise My intoxicating voice or be harsh without reason. Many have expressed that I am easy to converse with & have a comforting demeanor. At the same time, I do enjoy humiliation, inflicting physical pain, & pushing mental boundaries. Crafting stories & scenes – whether tender, devious, or a blend of both – is one of the great pleasures I have discovered in this realm. There are a great many kinky interests I indulge in, but it is always My desire to partake in activities which are mutually enjoyable.

My fun time outside of kink is frequently spent playing the latest board games, playing video games, watching movies or cute animal videos, gardening, & dancing salsa. Sarcasm & wit feed My soul. Pizza & boba tea feed My face. I possess natural nails & hairy armpits & legs. Having new & novel experiences, both in & out of the bedroom, makes life worth living. It is My dream to travel the world as I please, but for now, I reside in Los Angeles, California.

I embrace the rejection of most societal norms, especially those surrounding gender roles. I am a polyamorous pansexual person who delights in meeting bearded skirt wearing men, child-free-by-choice-women, & kinky software designers. The world is a bouquet of colorful flowers, each with their own beauty. All gender identities & sexual respresentations are welcome here.

Find My schedule posted weekly on My subreddit: /r/LovinglyRoughDomme/

Some of My Kinky Interests
  • Sissification/Crossdressing/Panty Wearing

  • Orgasm Control/Tease/Denial

  • Humiliation/Embarrassment

  • Cum Eating Instruction

  • Whispering/Breathplay

  • Sadism
  • Pegging/Prostate Play

  • Bi Encouragement

  • Male Chastity

  • Auto Fellatio

  • Cuckolding

  • Findom